For years, society has repeated the idea that “men are from Mars and women are from Venus,” as though men and women experience attraction, intimacy, and arousal as if they were entirely different species from entirely different worlds. Science often reinforces this narrative by focusing heavily on the differences between male and female sexuality, both […]
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Looking back, I think both my exhibitionism and my pansexuality became psychologically connected to freedom. For much of my life, I felt emotionally compressed by expectations surrounding masculinity, sexuality, identity, and even my own body. I grew up carrying a tremendous amount of shame around sexuality while simultaneously experiencing sexual intensity very early in life. […]
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Why Male Bisexuality Still Makes People Uncomfortable
There is still something about male bisexuality that makes many people visibly uncomfortable. Even in cultures that have become more accepting of different sexual identities, bisexual and pansexual men are often treated differently from almost everyone else. The discomfort is not always openly hostile, but it reveals itself through assumptions, stereotypes, jokes, and the immediate […]
For most of my life, I understood silence as survival. Not dramatic silence. Not the kind born from fear of violence or rejection at every turn. A quieter kind. The kind that develops slowly over years of learning which parts of yourself make people uncomfortable. There are a lot of bisexual men you probably know […]
As a bisexual man with a high sex drive in a straight and gay world, it has caused me to do some things that I am not so proud of (and at other times things I was proud of). Whether it’s hooking up with that guy on Grindr or having a spur-of-the-moment romp with a […]
Our skin is the largest organ of the human body. It protects us from the elements. It keeps us safe from bacteria and most viruses. The skin also acts as a portal to the rest of the world around us. Can you imagine living in a world where you cannot feel anything? What might that […]
It’s been a bit of an introspective Friday and I find myself thinking about why being bare, being nude is so important to me. Some of my close friends get it, my immediate family – for the most part, gets it, but I know it confuses them a little. There are of course times when […]
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What a Bisexual Person Gives Up – Being in a Monogamous Relationship
I didn’t choose to be bisexual. There is nothing I can do to “turn it on” or “turn it off”, I simply am. To my knowledge, I have been all my life. I can recall being a child and finding other men and women both attractive. I just learned at some point that it was […]
Sex Unleashed Warning: Reader discretion is advised. The content within this series is intended for mature audiences only and is only for educational purposes. Over next few weeks, I will be writing a series called “Sex unleashed in modern society”. I will be focusing on the sexual nature of our society, underground sexual practices and […]
This is Bi Awareness week and on Saturday it will be Bisexuality Awareness Day, which leads me to think about my own awareness concerning my own bisexuality and how those around me relate to me. NOTE: Keep in mind, that this blog is about my continual growth and my understanding of the LGBTQ+ terms and […]
