Looking back, I think both my exhibitionism and my pansexuality became psychologically connected to freedom. For much of my life, I felt emotionally compressed by expectations surrounding masculinity, sexuality, identity, and even my own body. I grew up carrying a tremendous amount of shame around sexuality while simultaneously experiencing sexual intensity very early in life. […]
Category: The Human Body
Labels Don’t Define Me and Only Make Me Smaller
Why do we have labels? “He’s a father”, “She’s a hiker”, “They are a teacher”, “He’s gay”, “She’s straight”, “He’s bi”, etc. They really all only exist for one purpose. Society puts them on us for “relation”. So that we can say “Oh, I understand him because he has the same label as me. He’s […]
The Feeling Of Three (or More) Bodies Connected
The average person growing up, and growing old will (in my opinion) only really know what it feels like to be with another person one at a time. Most people define sex as something that is intimate between two people. Yes, there is definitely intimacy an emotional bond that cannot be defined by words when […]
Our skin is the largest organ of the human body. It protects us from the elements. It keeps us safe from bacteria and most viruses. The skin also acts as a portal to the rest of the world around us. Can you imagine living in a world where you cannot feel anything? What might that […]

