Why do we have labels? “He’s a father”, “She’s a hiker”, “They are a teacher”, “He’s gay”, “She’s straight”, “He’s bi”, etc. They really all only exist for one purpose. Society puts them on us for “relation”. So that we can say “Oh, I understand him because he has the same label as me. He’s […]
Tag: bisexual
The Feeling Of Three (or More) Bodies Connected
The average person growing up, and growing old will (in my opinion) only really know what it feels like to be with another person one at a time. Most people define sex as something that is intimate between two people. Yes, there is definitely intimacy an emotional bond that cannot be defined by words when […]
What a Bisexual Person Gives Up – Being in a Monogamous Relationship
I didn’t choose to be bisexual. There is nothing I can do to “turn it on” or “turn it off”, I simply am. To my knowledge, I have been all my life. I can recall being a child and finding other men and women both attractive. I just learned at some point that it was […]
This is Bi Awareness week and on Saturday it will be Bisexuality Awareness Day, which leads me to think about my own awareness concerning my own bisexuality and how those around me relate to me. NOTE: Keep in mind, that this blog is about my continual growth and my understanding of the LGBTQ+ terms and […]
My friends that are closest to me and my fiancé all know that I am bisexual and most are either fine with it or don’t care. However, there are people (that are an integral part of my life) that I will never be able to come out to. People that I work with, possibly my […]
For the last fifteen years, I’ve not questioned my sexual identity. I’m a bisexual male. I’m not bi-curious or straight. I’m most definitely bisexual and equally attracted to both men and women. At least, that’s what I’ve always thought. Recently, the confluence of a new friendship and the start of my writing for LGBTQ newspaper […]
I once read a poem called “The Measure of a Man” in a friends house, it read: Not – How did he die? But – How did he live? Not – What did he gain? But – What did he give? These are the things that measure the worth Of a man as a man, […]